How can I get over him? That even his thought will no longer bother me. For me to fully appreacite my family.

i think the only way you are truly going to be able to get ped it is if yu ask i dont know if that is the right thing to do but i've learned that wants you find out what you want to know you will eventually be able to move on rather its negative (probably hurt like hell) or positively (happy but then have to realize that you are married and have a child ) and then figure out what means the most or really what would be the best thing for you it's a hard decision but if you're happy stay in your marriage and raise your family. Good Luck to you.